Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

I did a bit of digging and couldn’t find anyone else asking about this. Does anyone else deal with the center ‘pee’ hole area being too wide on their cage?

My small metal cage lets my tip slip out, causing painful rubbing or chafing, particularly when I’m moving around.

Currently, I wedge a cotton ball in there to help, but it sometimes pops loose and sends me back to the start.

I’ve considered using a plastic zip tie, though I worry that might cause more problems than just simple chafing. It would be nice if there were an accessory designed specifically for this spot—something that lets you urinate comfortably while keeping things in place and preventing both popping out and irritation.

Any advice is welcome!

Are you suggesting the end of your penis gets rubbed raw by contact with the cage? If that's what's happening, look for a model that offers just a few extra millimeters of clearance. I used to wear plastic CB models where the rings pinched and chafed badly—never again. The one I'm wearing now touches the end in the morning, but thanks to the weight of the stainless steel combined with standing all day, there's about 3/4 inch of space by lunchtime.