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I introduced myself in the correct part but think here will be best about my journey into Chastity with my Wife, my Key-holder.

I started reading up on chastity for the past several weeks and finally plucked up the courage to talk to my wife about it. She was honest and said she had no idea about it but was open to the idea.

So after a few texts between us while I was at work, I messaged her saying I had found the thing to help and sent her a picture of a cage I had ordered.

It arrived on May 17th. On Saturday the 18th, I opened it with her and asked if she would put it on me. Once I got soft enough after getting the ring on, I squeezed the cage onto my shaft and locked it, to her dismay that it might hurt me. I handed her both keys; she put them on her bedside table then we lay and cuddled while she gave a few squeezes. I started rubbing her until she came, and then we cuddled again. As we cuddled, I said I think you like that cage more than you know, judging by how you acted at home.

She just smiled and got up to get dressed. I headed to the bathroom to try and pee in this cage, which eventually happened when I got a bit softer lol.

When I came back, both keys were gone and the only note said I might just keep you locked up!!

And that was the beginning of day one!!!

She mentioned a few times if it’s sore wearing it, but it’s not sore, just different.

My balls do get tender when I get hard, but I suppose that will be normal as they are pulled towards the end of the cage?

We both had a few drinks that night and when in bed we cuddled a lot more. Her hand travelled to the cage around it, knowing I was getting hard inside my cage.

I started playing with her then and was allowed to make her cum; then it was cuddles and sleep. In the middle of the morning about 2 am, I was woken by her touch again all round my cage and thighs, and I was allowed to make her cum again. Then she let me tongue her clit until she came a third time, having to push my mouth away as I could do that all night. I love her taste.

When we woke in the morning, we cuddled and talked about various things. When she asked if it was sore, I said no; it’s uncomfortable when I’m hard, but the feeling of it pressing against the cage makes up for it.

We had a good day with all the family and visiting relatives too.

We went to bed and of course, when I see my wife stripping for her pyjamas, I go on again. No mention of it from her, and I massaged some cream into her tattoos on her back and arms before we went to sleep.

This morning was work as usual so up at 5 to switch off my alarms to stop waking her while I get dressed. Once ready to leave the house, I always go through for a kiss and cuddle where she asked if I’ll be alright in that at work, with no mention of maybe unlocking or anything.

I said it should be fine; I’m a truck driver so hoped it would be.

And honestly, it has been really. A few adjustments here and there but I’ve managed so far lol.

Into Day 3 yesterday; at work I had to just be careful how I bent over to do things but no great issues. Had to plan my toilet stops now as it’s not so easy to pee, especially miles from anywhere in the country where I can’t just pop it out lol. After a hot bath last night, I think my cage and ring are just a bit too big, so I’ve ordered a 45mm ring type with a slightly shorter cage to see if that catches my erection before it gets too big and just pushes my balls up my shaft with the cage. Maybe that’s normal though? I said to her I had ordered a smaller type with a ring, and she thought the same; it might be a bit big. When we went to bed last night, however, I couldn’t keep my hands off my wife. As she patted my cage and asked if it was sore, I got hard in seconds and couldn’t help stroking and snuggling into her, much to her annoyance to the point where she told me to stop or she would unlock me!! I did stop very quickly then. I also apologised this morning after going to work, before she went to hers. I’ve not had a text back from her yet so I hope she’s not still annoyed with me for keeping her awake.

When I got in last night after work my wife had nearly slept in for work. She said I would have been in trouble if she had but she was fine. I got myself in the bath and a little later my wife opened the door lock from the outside as she needed something. As I stood up, she pointed out that I could pull out of the cage with a look at me as if I had been playing with it. As I said, I had ordered a smaller one because when I was in the bath the night before everything got smaller with the heat. But she could see if I had been playing, it would not have been able to get out... I promised her I hadn’t touched it as it’s hers to control now. She just gave me a smile. The smaller one should be here today hopefully. As every morning I go in and give her a kiss and cuddle before leaving, she allowed me to suck her nipple a bit before I went. What a treat and I was hard as I could get in the cage.