Introductions discussion

“It’s a shame websites like this weren’t around in the ’80s when my wife and I began our journey with what we called “wild sex.” You know the vibe; latex, soft BDSM. In later years came piercings and even heavy ones. But back in 1980, it evolved into her dictating what she wanted done to me. She never strayed, just liked to ‘embellish’ me.

So I got a lock through my penis. She did the piercing herself and installed the device. To cut a long story short, she became the Mistress of our home. I wore latex suits whenever she pleased, and after we had kids, I was only allowed to lick her to orgasm. Occasionally, she teased me; after hours or even days of edging, I’d be granted a terrifyingly intense orgasm. After years with just a lock in my penis, she began adorning it with all sorts of piercings, mostly nice round balls at the ends because she wanted to see if she could get a better ‘feel’ when and if I penetrated her, warning me not to cum. At one point, I had over 27 barbells of varying ball sizes. It worked well, but after some time, she lost interest. However, she found a new novelty: a single-bar cage with a catheter and a ring closing around the sack. Simple, very easy to clean, and forcing me to sit to pee. Never again were toilet seats left standing in our house.

Five years ago, my love of life passed away after a terrible illness. Of course, things have changed now. Piercings and chastity cages aren’t locked anymore because living alone requires adaptations just in case the unexpected happens.

Do I regret it? Yes and no. I wish sites like this had existed back in 1980; we would have experimented less. On the other hand: no. We had to invent a lot ourselves. That’s part of the fun, after all.

For those curious, yes, I still wear my piercings (size 000 in my nipples and 2mm/3mm in my penis) and yes, I still wear my cage. It has become second nature; I feel naked without it.

The only thing I hope to find is a woman who can understand what it means to have her hold the key to me.

"My Wife (KH) is 69 years young... I hope that when she hits 70, I'm still locked in my cage...