Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Greetings everyone, I’ve been reading here for quite a while and absorbing wisdom from many insightful exchanges among you all. I’d like to open up a chat regarding PIV. The situation is that my Queen adores it. Over the past few months she has really embraced keeping me locked, denying me orgasm for periods of varying length. Yet occasionally she prefers getting ‘raw’ and riding me, or feeling me enter her for longer stretches.

The challenge this creates is that after being locked up for a while, I become quite sensitive, and it’s common to leak during thrusting even without reaching an orgasm. My stamina has dropped so much that she finds it hard to climax before I do.

We own a strap-on which she often likes me wearing, along with a gag dildo; these are highly stimulating for me to use, though sometimes she desires the real thing.

It’s been a wonderful journey with her recently. There is a sparkle in her gaze when she looks at me locked up, and a playfulness that flows freely without the burden of needing anything more than what she chooses. I sense she still prefers my orgasms to be less frequent than they are now, but every so often she returns to basic passion and yields by unlocking me for an orgasm because it serves as the compromise. My goal is to make everything revolve around her needs rather than just a ‘compromise’.

How do you handle these conditions? What about using numbing sprays or creams? Penis sleeves? Any advice or personal stories would be appreciated:lockkey::)

Miss Amanda also enjoys PIV at times, but it is uncommon for me to be permitted to finish inside her. She expects me to keep control and not release until she has received everything from me. Only then does she say "off you get now". I always remember that PIV serves her pleasure primarily.

> Miss Amandas boy said: > Miss Amanda also enjoys PIV at times, but it is uncommon for me to be permitted to finish inside her. She expects me to keep control and not release until she has received everything from me. Only then does she say "off you get now". > > I always remember that PIV serves her pleasure primarily. > Click to expand... It should indeed be so. Your joy comes from giving her happiness. I have been trained not to cum unless told to do so. Naturally, even before this training began, I worked diligently to master my control over orgasms. Perhaps I was ahead of the times or perhaps fortunate enough to have a strong mother figure. But I learned to honor women and place my partner's needs above my own.