Introductions discussion

Hi folks! I’m Kate. A cheeky little sissy girl who identifies as submissive.

I’ve spent some time watching from the sidelines of the CD, BDSM, and sissy worlds, but I’m now stepping into the ring more actively.

I’m married, though my wife is still in the dark about this part of me. For now, I’m gently unveiling my submissive side to her while exploring new experiences together, hoping for a positive outcome. It’s not exactly the path most would suggest, but it fits where I am right now.

Recently, I’ve also started serving an online Mistress. It has been quite revealing and genuinely enjoyable. Through her guidance and suggestions from friends, I stumbled upon chastity—and this website as well (thanks Rhi!).

Looking forward to chatting more! Kate xo

Welcome! Sharing that side of yourself with your partner can be a nerve-wracking experience. However, you’re no different from many here; there is plenty of good advice on this forum for handling these situations, and honesty tends to work best. Also, not trying to pry, but if you truly want your wife involved in this lifestyle, I suggest stepping back from the online mistress dynamic. If she discovers that secret later, it will be a lot to unpack, and I’m certain it could hurt her feelings significantly given what has been happening behind her back. I’d recommend dropping the online mistress role and asking your own wife to lock you up in chastity (there’s lots of info here on how to approach this with partners). It would likely be much more enjoyable for you and help keep your perspective clear regarding who is really dominating you—your real-life spouse versus a virtual one. Good luck!

Hello @Subgirlkate and welcome to the community! I hope you find it welcoming here.