Female led relationships discussion

My wife enjoys using severe caning to highlight my submissive role, which I appreciate. It draws us closer together. For maximum effect, she uses very hard strokes that frequently make me scream or shout and sometimes bring tears to my eyes. We used to live on a large property but now reside in the suburbs, so the noise carries well outside. This awareness is currently holding back our enjoyment of the activity. I am curious if others find that applying slightly lighter strikes many times over an extended period can be equally effective. Naturally we plan to experiment with this approach, and often external input offers helpful advice or new perspectives on things we hadn’t thought about before. We have tried gags but feel they are somewhat unappealing. An advantage of getting more strokes is a much more striped backside and a higher chance for cuts and welts that we both appreciate (for different reasons). We are definitely a bit kinky, yet I hope completely sane, which makes this an essential part of our relationship.

> OldLockedCuck said: > My wife enjoys using severe caning to highlight my submissive role, which I appreciate. It draws us closer together. For maximum effect, she uses very hard strokes that frequently make me scream or shout and sometimes bring tears to my eyes. We used to live on a large property but now reside in the suburbs, so the noise carries well outside. This awareness is currently holding back our enjoyment of the activity. I am curious if others find that applying slightly lighter strikes many times over an extended period can be equally effective. Naturally we plan to experiment with this approach, and often external input offers helpful advice or new perspectives on things we hadn't thought about before. We have tried gags but feel they are somewhat unappealing. An advantage of getting more strokes is a much more striped backside and a higher chance for cuts and welts that we both appreciate (for different reasons). We are definitely a bit kinky, yet I hope completely sane, which makes this an essential part of our relationship. > Click to expand... Yes, absolutely. Delivering six strikes at roughly 75% power in rapid succession right on top of each other produces excellent results. Rather than receiving twelve individual strokes, you end up with twelve sets of six. Enjoy!

I am gagged before she begins. I can yelp as much as I wish and no one will hear me.