Introductions discussion

Hi everyone I’ve spent over a week here and really enjoying the site, but I need some assistance. My Queen is still finding FLR and chastity a bit strange. I keep suggesting she read this book or that one, which she either ignores or skims through quickly. Consequently, I end up saying do this to me, do that to me, pointing out that since we’ve all read these books and browsed various web pages like every man does, our excitement kicks in and we slip into porn mode lol. Since joining CM, I’ve come across more respectful and realistic forums; if she were to join too and write her own posts asking for help from mistresses who also felt the same way when they started out, she’d learn a lot about how to approach FLR comfortably. So could any mistresses please reply so I can show my Queen that if she signs up here and chats with helpful mistresses, it would really assist her understanding—I’d be very grateful. It’s hurting me because I’m becoming a bit pushy; she’s had me locked up for 24 days now without an O, after we’ve been trying for nearly a year. I just feel that if she could chat with someone who understands where she is right now in this whole journey, she’d gain more confidence. I love her so much and am happily married; I simply want her to understand what I’m feeling. Thank you in advance