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After taking a short break from wearing it, my mistress and I have decided that we should move into permanent chastity so there is only one person to answer…

member_5bb89b7146 13 Sept 2026 #1

After taking a short break from wearing it, my mistress and I have decided that we should move into permanent chastity so there is only one person to answer to: mature metal. Since I am not circumcised, I will be considering an inwardly barred model once the measuring rings arrive and we are satisfied with the measurements. Does anyone have suggestions for the best cage and options?

member_e94413dab6 13 Sept 2026 #2

Mature Metal is a great choice. Best of luck on your journey into permanent chastity.:) The round stock used in the MatureMetal Jailbird that I own looks nice, and it is very popular. Actually, my everyday cage is a MaleChastityNow Contender. It’s quite similar but slightly lighter... what sold me was their unique PA security option which I added once I had gotten pierced. “There’s no backing out now!” says my humorous keyholding wife.;) It might come down to personal comfort and taste, but I don’t feel as comfortable in flat plate stock designs. He does make cool ones with them, but I find softer edges are better. A cage with an open design that fits snugly can be worn for longer periods. I am able to stay clean and healthy while wearing it without needing to take it off. I’m not a Jailbird wearer myself, but my experience with the Contender alongside trying many other designs has led me to prefer devices made from round bar stainless steel stock. Oh, and the security screw is preferable. You can always use a padlock instead, but I like its low profile. Don’t rush your measurements! Wear the rings for some time. You will be surprised how flaccid you become when wearing a shaft ring that fits tightly when you put it on while you “think” you are flaccid and not aroused... but as you walk around, if you catch your cock off guard under clothes, you’ll see just how narrow it gets. Especially true for me during the workday.:) You don’t need extra length or girth. A nice, snug fit that doesn't trap blood is best. I am circumcised but I like to roll my skin forward and trap it around my glans so I feel as though I have a foreskin. It doesn’t extend beyond my piercing hole, obviously... but it feels great. My final piece of advice is to contain all your glans and any sensitive underside areas. If you end up with a really short cage like mine, make sure your most sensitive parts are fully contained within the cage. All the best.

member_0b48f9cbd9 14 Sept 2026 #3

A double base ring is highly recommended. Also go for an oval shape. And you probably wouldn’t regret going even a little shorter on the length than they advise.

member_5bb89b7146 14 Sept 2026 #4

Some good advice here. I'm currently in a Cb6000 but it doesn't do much for me since I can still get aroused while wearing it. Ideally, I want the cage to be as snug and small as possible, which is why I am getting the rings. How tight would you recommend the cage being on a flaccid penis?