Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’m married and locked in a cage around the clock. This spring has been intense, with random women flirting with me almost every day. One female co-worker even gave my butt a slap while I was bent over—totally out of line, but that’s a tale for another time.

I believe it comes down to pheromones: since I’m packed full and don’t masturbate, other women pick up on the biological urge to reproduce. They seem to approach me subconsciously because they sense my need to mate. The constant female attention is driving me crazy. To cope, I’ve started dressing cheaply, though that hasn’t really solved anything.

Since going into my cage about a year ago (in August), which has been roughly 95% of the time, I’ve noticed this happening too. It felt like my Wife(KH) had orchestrated these women to come in and flirt with me—though she hadn’t actually done so; it just seemed that way. I also realize that I find most women very attractive myself, often feeling as though I should drop to my knees or submit to them.

Is it possible that women feel less threatened instinctively by men who aren’t subconsciously trying to pick up every woman they meet? Perhaps simply because there’s no real point in doing so. If these guys don't pose a threat, do some women then feel more at ease around them? This comfort might lead the women to wonder: if I feel so comfortable with him, WHY is he apparently not interested? This question may prompt her behavior to encourage him into showing interest, just to soothe her own ego. It’s often said that people are complicated in general; it seems women take this complication even further.

> filltee said: > Is it that women feel less threatened on an instinctive level by guys that subconsciously are not trying to pull every woman they meet ..... if only because there is no point. > Not feeling threatened by such guys do some women then feel more comfortable with them. Which raises the question for them if I feel so comfortable with him WHY is apparently not interested. Which in turn may possibly generate behaviour by her to encourage thim into showing interest just to appease her own ego > Never let it be said that people generally are not complicated and women, it would seem, are even more so. > Click to expand... I think this makes perfect sense. I’m skeptical about whether being full of sperm actually changes your pheromones; I suspect a prolonged high state of Arousal is the real factor. But I definitely agree with filltee’s points. A few months back, a female co-worker was complaining about her back and mentioned she needed a massage. When I said that I always give my wife a good one, she asked me to do hers. She claimed it was the best massage ever received, noting that her husband usually only does it for a minute or two before trying something else with her. She told another co-worker, who then told others, and now there’s quite a queue of women waiting for back, neck, and shoulder massages from me!