Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hello everyone. I’m new to this site, and I’m making this thread because I don’t really know where else to ask a question like this. I have been into chastity stuff for a long time, but I have always run into the same issue with every cage I buy; they don’t fit. I have a very wide / thick tool, and I’m a grower more than a show’er. I have a metal cage, and its nice and all, but I really like the look of the lighter material see-through ones, and I’m really sad that I can’t seem to find one that fits. The tubes for these cages seem narrow to the point that I can barely fit part of two fingers inside of them. I don’t know if this is normal and the average chastity cage enthusiast has an extremely narrow penis, but for me, it’s impossible to squeeze inside.

The “large” versions of these cages normally have a tiny amount of additional cage diameter to work with (which really isnt enough of a difference to matter), but they also make the cages longer, which if you’re a grower, doesn’t really help anything. I can’t seem to find anything wider than the standard needle-dong proportion cages, and I would really appreciate any advice or recommendations:( Yes I’m aware there are techniques to wiggle inside of small cages. I’v been at this for years, and I’v tried everything, trust me. “You can make it fit” is fair in most cases, but when I can barely fit the tip into the cage entrance without my junk turning purple from strangulation, I have to start believing the cage is too small.

TLDR: I’m very wide and having trouble finding a cage I can fit inside that isn’t a custom made metal one pls help