Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

Hello! I’m seeking a woman, preferably nearby, who’d be willing to lock me up and act as my key holder. Though new to this scene, I’ve been interested in chastity for years. My preference is flexible regarding the relationship style you prefer. We could go with an FWB arrangement where your pleasure is primary while I’m locked away, including tease/denial and orgasm control. Alternatively, it might be more platonic: you keep me confined for your amusement, and we remain friends. We can discuss what works best.

I believe chastity would benefit my life in several ways. It should help me respect women more deeply since I’ll know someone holds the key to my restraint. It will shift my habits away from the typical male urge to always seek sex or let desire drive decisions. My masturbation frequency will likely drop, and it could boost my overall productivity by reducing distractions caused by constant thoughts of sex and erections interfering with important tasks.

I need a gradual introduction—starting with short-term wear before committing long-term. There might be periods where I don’t enjoy the confinement; if you’re dominant and know how to handle that, it’s a bonus.

I’m friendly and easygoing, an average guy with some geek/nerd traits who enjoys casual activities.

If this interests you, please reach out! I’d love to chat. Thanks!