Introductions discussion

Everyone, I’ve been watching the chastity scene for a long time, but I have finally shared my deepest feelings about it with my partner. I believe being open and communicative about these desires is better than trying to steer someone without them realizing it. That said, their reaction was mostly puzzlement. Right now, this arrangement feels like fun, but I notice that for many who started out treating it as play, it has grown into something deeper. I would love to hear what other people have done to help their (consenting and aware) partners understand why anyone would want to be kept under another’s authority in this manner. What kinds of actions, activities, or gestures did you use to reassure your partner that the ongoing tension of denial is superior to the relief after frequent release? Additionally, I realize there are several chastity-related fantasies I have which my spouse might choose to join in on. How did you let go of those specific dreams so you could discover together what truly suits you both? Let’s see where this path takes us.

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