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I'm looking to see if there is any interest in me being a keyholder. This would have to be distance training. I’m not looking for anything in return. I am…

member_1de1833c9e 13 Sept 2026 #1

I’m looking to see if there is any interest in me being a keyholder. This would have to be distance training. I’m not looking for anything in return. I am not experienced as being a KH but very experienced being a sub in chastity. I’ll see if there is interest before more details on my thoughts.

member_3ba8fbcabc 13 Sept 2026 #2

> Lockedloser said: > Im looking to see if there is any interest in me being a keyholder. This would have to be distance training. I’m not looking for anything in return. I am not experienced as being a KH but very experienced being a sub in chastity. I’ll see if there is interest before more details on my thoughts. > Click to expand... Hello LockedLoser. I really appreciate your post. To be honest, I hadn't given the gender topic much thought. I experimented once quite a while ago on another site with a male KH. It didn't work out, but not due to any gender reasons. That said, if I think about it, probably 99.9% of the cycles where I spend time thinking about chastity tend to feature a KH with a very female theme. Extreme, as you might say. I really appreciate you reaching out, but I'd like to hold off for a bit before trying that route just yet. Great to meet you though. Take care and thanks again.

member_1de1833c9e 14 Sept 2026 #3

> DrChastity said: > Hello LockedLoser. I very much appreciate your post. I actually hadn't given the gender topic much thought to be honest. I experimented once quite a while ago on one of the other sites with a male KH. It didn't work out, but not due to any gender reasons. That said, if I think about it, probably 99.9% of the cycles I spend thinking about chastity tend to have a KH with a very female theme. Extreme, if you will. I very much thank you for reaching out but I'd like to hold off for a bit before trying that route just yet. But great to meet you. Take care and thanks again. > Click to expand... No problem at all and thanks for the reply.

member_e989f83998 15 Sept 2026 #4

My wife and I would really consider a male keyholder. She would enjoy the thought of not having to be in control, and it likely wouldn't make her concerned or jealous that he is not female.