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Hi everyone. My partner and I are searching for an affordable, practical chastity device that keeps me locked in without costing a fortune.

member_f775ee48e6 13 Sept 2026 #1

Hi everyone. My partner and I are searching for an affordable, practical chastity device that keeps me locked in without costing a fortune.

member_69d8e1b000 14 Sept 2026 #2

Look at eBay and Amazon. You can find plenty of options under $30. Keep in mind that what suits one person might be miserable for another because our bodies differ, so read reviews with some skepticism. Measure your ring size carefully; 45mm is a standard fit. If you have the budget, buying sizing rings is useful since your perception of "fit" will shift significantly during the first few weeks. Take several measurements (more than just one or two) of your flaccid length. The cage shouldn't exceed this measurement, though slightly smaller is preferable for reasons that become obvious if you end up with something too large. I recommend straightforward 2-piece steel cages (ring and cage only). Multi-piece designs can be tricky to put on without pinching skin. Stay away from plastic and silicon. Also, skip hinged base rings unless you plan on short-term wear. Others might disagree with some points here since it comes down to personal taste. Best of luck.

member_bf2e2888ba 15 Sept 2026 #3

> tecolote said: > Look at eBay and Amazon. You can find plenty of options under $30. Keep in mind that what suits one person might be miserable for another because our bodies differ, so read reviews with some skepticism. > > Measure your ring size carefully; 45mm is a standard fit. If you have the budget, buying sizing rings is useful since your perception of "fit" will shift significantly during the first few weeks. > > Take several measurements (more than just one or two) of your flaccid length. The cage shouldn't exceed this measurement, though slightly smaller is preferable for reasons that become obvious if you end up with something too large. > > I recommend straightforward 2-piece steel cages (ring and cage only). Multi-piece designs can be tricky to put on without pinching skin. > > Stay away from plastic and silicon. Also, skip hinged base rings unless you plan on short-term wear. > > Others might disagree with some points here since it comes down to personal taste. > > Best of luck. > Click to expand... He is absolutely right. I would steer clear of anything hinged; they pinch terribly.