Introductions discussion

Hi all, I’m a newcomer here. I stumbled upon this forum while doing some online research, and it’s truly wonderful (and lovely) to see so many people sharing the same general interest in chastity. It makes me very glad to be part of this global group. Writing from Europe, Italy (please forgive my occasional English mistakes:) ) I’ve been quite captivated by chastity for about three years now. It’s mostly been a solitary journey since where I live (and Italy broadly) makes it difficult to meet people with a BDSM mindset. So, roughly two years ago, I purchased my first cage for myself—a CB6000. Honestly, the fit wasn’t great; wearing it outside was nearly impossible. Still, it was a good trial run that let me experience new sensations, mostly out of curiosity. Afterward, I took a break. This past February, I got a Holytrainer (small size), and it was vastly superior (I adore this model). I stayed locked continuously for 10 days, which felt incredible. Then life happened: moving cities and switching universities meant flying, so I left my cage at my parents’ house where I used to live and stopped wearing one. Today, my new HT arrived home, and I’m thrilled. Yes, back in chastity. It feels amazing. I have a boyfriend whom I really love; he’s great too. However, I feel he might not be quite the “dominant” type, and I wonder if either of us is ready to bring up the topic of chastity between us. He’s currently abroad for two weeks, so I’ll remain locked during that time. We can discuss it when he returns; in the meantime, I’ll look for advice from this community in another thread. That covers my story! Best regards from Italy:*

Hello @akhyleus and welcome here! I hope you enjoy it as much as others do.