Introductions discussion

Hey! I’ve been shown this site by my sub a few times, with him sharing other people’s stories, and tonight I decided it was time to join. My boyfriend and I have been together for less than a year; he enjoys taking the lead and quickly got me hooked. It began normally enough—tied up, blindfolded, that sort of thing—but then things got exciting (in a good way). We were browsing Amazon for toys when a cage appeared on his screen (perhaps deliberately on his part), but one thing led to another and we bought it. It started as just a few days but has now stretched into weeks. My partner can be self-centered in the bedroom and masturbates daily, so this felt like a good solution. The idea is that while he’s locked up, he takes care of me first, and eventually when I release him, his turn comes too. But it doesn’t quite seem to work yet; it takes him several days to really pleasure me properly, and due to his self-centeredness, it isn’t as thrilling as I’d like—it’s mostly just a buzz from my wand. So I’m hoping this will start to click soon, where he becomes less selfish and gives me the satisfaction I want. I tend to be soft-hearted and usually let him out after a few days so he can breathe, but I think I need to become stricter since clearly I’m not getting what I desire. Comments and advice welcome!! xxx

Evening GoddessB Welcome to the site. It’s a brilliant platform and thank you to everyone who looks after it for us all. Ask away, connect with others, and you will meet some great like-minded people. For me, having my wife as the key holder who is new to this dynamic, it’s lovely getting opinions from others. Hopefully you will find that here too.

Welcome to this amazing community. I hope both of you enjoy the site and get exactly what you are looking for. Good luck!