Introductions discussion

Hey there! I’m new to the chastity lifestyle. My boyfriend introduced me to it about three months ago, and ever since then, I’ve been actively trying to find my place in this world. Don’t get me wrong, I am really excited but also somewhat ignorant and in need of tips and tricks.

My boyfriend has brought many new kinks and sex toys into the mix, which thrills me, and most recently he introduced me to the cage as well as his submissive side. I’ve been experimenting with playing up my dominant part, yet I feel like I’m at a point where I don’t know what else to do next. I think I just need more confidence (even though I am generally quite confident) and some advice.

Right now, he is away while locked in. When he returns next week, he will have spent about 16 days locked up—the longest stint I’ve ever given him—and I want to surprise him with new items. Basically, I do spanking, choking, denial (I need help with that too), and anal sex with the cage on, etc… you know the basics? I want to learn new things I can do to him and how to be stricter and more dominant without feeling silly. He has plenty of gear so feel free to get creative!

I neeeeeed help. All advice is welcome!