Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Like many of us who are locked up, I find myself aroused by my own predicament. It is a bit strange that back in the day, what really got me worked up was the concept of hardcore chastity and denial. Now that I am actually committed to permanent chastity/denial, naturally, I no longer get turned on just by thinking about it, nor can do much else regarding it. Still, nothing makes my cock hard inside this cage more than being reminded of its presence. The issue is that neither my wife nor my keyholder care much for hearing me discuss my dick, the cage itself, or my ongoing state. To them, they are weary of men going on and on about their members or their frustration levels. My keyholder has indicated that late September marks essentially a day of acceptance regarding chastity. I am not permitted to bring up anything related to my cage or its condition unless there is a medical or safety justification. I suspect my wife wants the same thing. The message is clear: if we want to do something with it, we will let you know; otherwise, deal with it.

Has anyone else noticed that the frustration of being in chastity creates a urge to express how it feels and what the experience entails to their partners? How does your partner respond?

It sounds like they don't really want to participate in the game anymore, so it will become a matter of control over you rather than mutual fun. If you can't discuss things and enjoy them together, especially sex, what is the point?

I agree; I also like to talk about it, but luckily my madam does too. She loves poking fun at me for being unable to do anything while locked up. It seems you might need to have a chat with your keyholder or wife because the mutual interest appears to be fading.