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My wonderful wife has permitted me to enjoy chastity along with some related activities. For roughly a year, we would attempt it for several days at a time before taking the device off. As her Key Holder (KH), she didn’t feel much pressure regarding my locking, and since the devices I bought weren’t always perfect fits, things kind of drifted apart. On the bright side, our bond is strong both emotionally and physically, yet chastity never really stuck for long periods despite us discussing it frequently; eventually, six months ago, we decided to start all-time chastity.

It has been a fantastic experience. Although we probably won’t reach full Female-Led Relationship or pure dominance levels, significant progress has occurred. I describe the state as permanent in context because she still removes it for sex and denial isn’t quite established yet, but control over when and where happens is now hers to decide. She’s experimenting with anal play, cum play, torture, and moving toward sissy dynamics.

The main challenge remains my tendency to give orders from the bottom position, which I’m addressing; hopefully, one day I’ll feel genuine fear for what we’ve started.

I wrote this for anyone considering progress or how to approach their partner. It’s a journey that deserves patience. Best wishes.