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I figured I ought to do a proper introduction. I'm Michael, twenty-three years old and currently in college. Ironically enough, I go to a pretty…

member_915b8596f7 29 Aug 2026 #1

I figured I ought to do a proper introduction. I’m Michael, twenty-three years old and currently in college. Ironically enough, I go to a pretty conservative Bible school where I’m majoring in Biblical Research. My fiancée is lovely, and she loves that I’ve given her the reins over my masculinity and when I get to climax. She doesn’t keep me locked up all the time; since masturbating hasn’t stopped me from attending to her needs, she’s fine with it—she actually enjoys having the power to say no. Plus, occasionally she ‘makes’ me wear panties (either hers or mine). I don’t think she’ll push for full femming on me (she wants a man, not a sissy girl, and while there’s been some talk of pantyhose, I’m only looking to be dominated; I’ve even started trimming my pubic hair recently). She likes penetrating me too, though she prefers plugs—and eventually dildos—over strap-ons.

She has denied me several times before, usually for just a day or two (rarely more than about a week). But the first time it lasted an entire month. Now that we’ve passed one month, she’s considering keeping me waiting through a second month to boot. Honestly, that sounds a bit daunting. I can’t remember going quite that long without climaxing since puberty started. On the other hand, I find that extended denial really turns me on. It’s an interesting cycle.

To be honest, I should have joined this forum ages ago because I’ve learned so much just reading everyone else’s stories. When I first arrived here, my understanding of chastity was limited to: ‘Oh, you buy these devices for the penis that prevent erections and orgasms.’

Anyway, all this rambling is just a way of saying: Hi, I’m Michael, and I am currently orgasm-denied. Michael

member_6382c09d66 31 Aug 2026 #2

Hi michael.. my partner locked4lisa and i are new to chastity and have'nt long joined this forum but have learnt lots and still enjoying learning more, the people here are very friendly and full of advice so dont be afraid to ask anything, so enjoy.. x

member_1b9a8aa789 2 Sept 2026 #3

Hello michael and welcome to the Mansion. Ms.Linda

member_915b8596f7 4 Sept 2026 #4

Thanks for the welcomes.:) I'm glad to see such an amazing variety of relationships and kinks here. It makes me feel like we fit right in, no matter where we end up going with D/s, denial, chastity, etc.

member_3d7705e8f0 8 Sept 2026 #5

Welcome!:-)