Introductions discussion

Hello! I’m in construction and nearly sixty; my wife is roughly a decade younger. We’ve been together for sixteen years now. She went through Catholic schools, so our intimacy has always been pretty standard/plain. I’ve long felt drawn to femdom dynamics—unsure why exactly, but it seems to keep Mr. Happy happy/controlled. Eventually, I shared these feelings with her and received two days of quiet withdrawal in response. Afterward, she asked what my expectations were for this arrangement. We had a lengthy discussion. Our interests don’t overlap completely. I’ve purchased her some books and pointed her toward various websites, encouraging her to do her own online research if the topic genuinely appeals to her. I mentioned that she should reach her own conclusions rather than simply catering to my desires. Ultimately, we agreed that I would acquire a chastity cage to help keep self-abuse in check. That’s where things stand right now. Delighted to have stumbled upon this site and eager for all the members and resources ahead.