Introductions discussion

Hello everyone. I signed up roughly a month back and set up this fresh account just now to update my name. My initial and most recent entries discussed how exhausted my partner seemed when acting as the keyholder for me. She mentioned she’d rather I “handle things on my own” since her libido is currently quite low. I let her know that I usually masturbate daily unless I expect intimacy later on. However, sometimes doing so leaves me without much desire by evening (and she likes to be the one starting it). That makes me feel a bit guilty because she’ll hint at being interested, but I might not pick up on it. I secured my cage myself the morning after that situation arose and told her I wanted to ensure I was prepared for when she felt ready. Afterward, I ran an experiment where I kept my wearing discreet until she spotted it. A few days passed without any comment from her. Since putting one in allows me to remove it later, I took mine off. We were intimate the following day and again two days after that. Yesterday, I put the device back on. There’s a specific model I find most comfortable; I wore that during work hours. Upon returning home, I swapped into another style she finds attractive visually. She realized it when we climbed under the covers. I mentioned those earlier days where she missed my wearing it. She recalled thinking she caught a glimpse once but wasn’t certain. Before drifting off to sleep later, she held my hand and rested her palm against her breast. This morning, I returned to my comfortable cage for work duties. It was surprising that I didn’t wake up with soreness in the middle of the night as is typical when using that particular model. I plan to swap back again once I return home from work today. The current goal is simply acclimating to this way of life, so should she decide to conceal her keys for a bit, I’m ready. I believe she will eventually grow accustomed to seeing me caged and start enjoying it more. Previously, when we attempted this routine before, she became frustrated either by my working around the device or by my moodiness after some time passed, or because she worried too much about how I was doing. If I can sidestep those reactions, I think she’ll come to accept it.

best wishes with this journey.