Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hello. I’m working on finding a way to wear a chastity device for extended periods. I’ve experimented with around five or six different models, all of them fairly affordable, but haven’t landed on the perfect fit yet. Here is my problem: one of my testicles is significantly smaller than the other and sits at an unusual angle. When using a 45mm base ring, that smaller testicle tends to slip out of the cage when I’m highly aroused or while sleeping. A 40mm ring feels too constricting, leading to pain and chafing, so I can’t keep it on for more than a few hours. Ideally, a 43mm ring would be just right. The 45mm ring on my Holy Trainer is comfortable but slightly loose. Sadly, they don’t produce this device with a 43mm ring option. It looks like getting a custom cage might be the only way to get that size, though those are pricey and I’m reluctant to spend the money unless I know it will stay comfortable for at least a week or so. Does anyone have tips on how to potentially reduce the size of a 45mm ring? Or any other chastity advice? Another possibility I’m weighing is getting a PA piercing, which would allow me to wear a cage without a base ring. However, that style isn’t my favorite because I want something that compresses the penis to keep it small and flaccid. I appreciate any guidance you can offer. Thanks, Ali.

Perhaps try coating the ring with tool dip to see how that affects the fit; it's a reversible change without damage. Often, narrowing that gap helps prevent the testicle from popping out.