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Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hi all, I’m Mel D., age 19. I created this thread because my experience with various chastity cages has been disappointing, and I’d like some advice to help…

member_638f5b590f 14 Sept 2026 #1

Hi all,

I’m Mel D., age 19. I created this thread because my experience with various chastity cages has been disappointing, and I’d like some advice to help avoid similar issues down the line.

So far, I’ve tried five different devices, none of which quite hit the mark for me. My main criteria is comfort during continuous wear, particularly while sleeping.

My current device is a metal cage from Oxy-Shop. After measuring up carefully over several days, I was somewhat let down by it. (To be clear: my cock size matches the listed measurements well.) CH14F:lockkey: (Link) oxy-shopch14f---335-85mm-length-18181610_400x.jpg Cage total length: 3.35 inch/85 mm length Internal width: 1.38 inch/35 mm

After wearing it for a full month, I’ve encountered three main issues: -:sos: Even when not sexually aroused, or during arousal, I get erections “inside” my body that push the device forward. It causes some pain, particularly at night when natural erections wake me up because the ring pushes my testicles forward.

  • Because this model has many decorative holes, sometimes skin gets caught between the cage and my underwear. It’s not terrible pain, but it is uncomfortable.
  • While I was initially excited about the metal construction, after a month of use, I have to admit its weight makes me feel uneasy.

So… I’ve been looking for another model, preferably silicone or bio-resin. I spotted this one at OXY-Shop: HT V3 Bioresine Cage:lockkey:(Link)

Cage diameter 34mm (1.3”) and 35mm (1.4”)* Full LengthNano: 82mm (3.22inch) /Small: 97mm (3.80inch) /Standard: 102mm (4.0inch) /Mixa: 110mm (4.33inch) Inside the Tube Length​ *Nano: 20mm (0.78inch) /Small: 45mm (1.77inch) /Standard: 52mm (2.0inch) /Mixa: 61mm (2.40inch) *

…and I’m wondering if this could solve my problems. I really like the pink “sissy” aesthetic, and since it’s silicone, it isn’t too heavy. What are your thoughts?;)

  • Please feel free to message me if you’d like to discuss further.