Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve been practicing chastity for several years now. I haven’t had extended periods locked up, but managing to get my wife on board has been tricky, even though she claims to have a dominant streak. Here’s the question: Lately, I’ve been playing the fool in hopes that my wife would take control of my chastity. You know—leaving happy tissues around and rubbing it in her face how many times a day I satisfy myself, generally acting like an idiot. Is this still considered topping from the bottom, or is it a viable strategy to help me release her dominant nature? Please share your thoughts (or here). Thanks

Just my view, but....you might want to be careful not to provoke Her. It could go either way...1) She gets so fed up that she simply ignores you completely. Or 2) She takes her anger out on your backside! To me, this feels like a form of topping from the bottom, and more importantly, it’s quite manipulative. Take it as you will...... Ms.Linda

I stopped acting like a fool since that approach wasn't working and decided to try a different method: talking. This led me to getting my wish. Better than expected. My wife locked me up the very same day we discussed it, which I thought was great! Two days later was my birthday, and I had an early trip scheduled for the morning after my birthday, so I assumed she would let me out and give myself a treat as a present. On the night of my birthday, she came into the bedroom after putting our little one to bed and retrieved the key to my lock. My wife walked over to me, unlocked my CB lock, but then immediately placed a plastic lock on it without even removing the cage before walking back out. So there's your lesson. Don't try to manipulate your wife to get what you want; just sit down and talk with each other.

> Wideone said: > So there's your lesson. > Don't try to manipulate the wife to get what you want; just sit down and talk with each other. > Click to expand... LOL - Well done! We do keep telling you this all along, but men have a way of selective hearing! Pleased that things are improving for you now.

Huh? What? Pardon me Miss Watchful? Were You saying something? I'm really sorry, didn't hear You... ;)