Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! I’ve become a KH (for the second time) for my spouse of nearly three decades. We attempted OD previously, but it didn’t quite click (largely because I struggled to grasp what he enjoyed about it); after that our marriage went sexless, and we decided to give OD another shot. It required some tough talks and both of us being open to discussing lovemaking so we could rediscover intimacy, and I’m finding the experience much more satisfying now than before.