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"Hello! My name is redacted and I am the wife of JJ MM (if my name looks similar, it’s actually because he created this profile for me.). My husband first…

member_04c4eac331 15 Sept 2026 #1

“Hello! My name is redacted and I am the wife of JJ MM (if my name looks similar, it’s actually because he created this profile for me.). My husband first brought up chastity when we were engaged. Some of you might have read his posts about our story from his perspective, but here’s a quick rundown.

When he first mentioned chastity, I was equal parts intrigued and shocked, but willing to give it a try. There were some complications; improperly fitting devices, my level of knowledge, losing a key (thankfully [maybe] while he wasn’t wearing it) etc., but as we’ve gone further in our relationship, chastity is something that comes and goes. We recently found the key, and the very next day he dropped the key right into my lap.

It got me thinking about the whole experience again, and I denied him after a (ahem) VERY good time last night. I was considering joining this forum again (he’s told me about this place before), and luckily he surprised me with this account. So here I am, and here’s what I ask of all you experienced people…

What are your most/least favorite things about male chastity? How do I even approach something like this? How can I maintain the balance between partner and mistress without going overboard and becoming… too bitchy?”