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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Sorry if this has come up before, but I wanted to ask... What is the final objective you are working toward? For example, do you want permanent locking with…

member_d40d7942c1 15 Sept 2026 #1

Sorry if this has come up before, but I wanted to ask… What is the final objective you are working toward? For example, do you want permanent locking with absolutely no orgasms permitted by your Keyholder? Or perhaps intermittent caging that allows for some fun experimentation? My personal aim is eventually 24/7 confinement, unlocking only when Goddess decides she wants to use it. Right now work and our young family make this difficult, but I hope in another 15-20 years we might achieve it. Until then, enjoying experiments whenever possible and learning from others’ experiences seems like a good approach.

member_381064b05f 15 Sept 2026 #2

We don't really have set goals, but every time we engage in play it is for the long term—both chastity (locked) and denial (for me). We've reached a stage where this could become our permanent setup. Mrs Edge prefers to keep me free from orgasm, though she doesn't mind an occasional ruined one in my cage (she likely helps along these moments because we all enjoy seeing our partner satisfied). There was no grand plan; it just happened that way.