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I brought chastity into our partnership about two and a half years ago. It began as an idea I wanted to test because it seemed quite attractive. My partner was open to trying, but didn’t fully understand why on earth I would want to lock myself up or have her do the locking. Even so, we’ve dabbled with chastity from time to time. The past six months brought a few hiccups in our relationship, largely due to mismatched libidos; I’m always ready for action while she is less often. This created considerable tension between us. We started using chastity as a solution. Over the years my partner has noticed the beneficial shifts that me wearing a chastity cage can produce. It helps me stay calmer, more submissive and eager to please. She still wishes I could be like this without needing a device - and I feel the same way. I never expected that the little gadget I thought was just a sexy notion would actually exert some psychological influence on me. And it truly does. Where are we at now after 2.5 years of this trial? Tonight, while wearing my cage for Valentine’s Day, I asked her how she feels about it currently. She says she has accepted it, grasps the benefits and finds it less odd. She wants it to remain a part of our dynamic and mentioned that she would like me to wear it more often in the future. It took time to get here but my partner now gets chastity. My Valentine’s night involved her preparing a lovely three-course dinner for me, some television afterwards, and then giving me a full-body massage. She leaned close and whispered, “we are skipping sex tonight and you aren’t leaving your cage.”