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I’m pleased with how my man is doing. It’s a long, tough road ahead. He has the desire to take charge. I don’t want to lose any of what we’ve built. His cooking has improved; he argues less.

My sex life has gotten better since he’s been caged up. I can sleep through the night and early morning without disturbance. I also made him stop wanking because he used to shake the bed in the evening, keeping me awake. So now I get more rest—one plus point.

He handles all the meals now; before, he’d just sit at his computer while I drained away by late afternoon. With my tendon pains and carpal tunnel syndrome, doing anything was hard for me, which made me frustrated… He did whatever suited him, leaving me too tired and sore to do even one thing for myself each day… Carrying the mental load of the household alone is tough. Being weak, lacking stamina, and in constant pain, we turned to male chastity as a way for my life to improve.

He enjoys being submissive. It’s not easy for me, but it’s the only path he finds to become a better husband. For me, this means no more insecurity or feeling harassed like before…

But he needs constant oversight because he doesn’t quite grasp household necessities.

He does exactly what I explicitly tell him to. If I walk into the kitchen, I know for a fact that the sinks, counters, and sponges won’t be clean. The oil bottle and other items will likely still be on the table instead of in the fridge or cupboards. I have to say everything out loud, watch every detail, which is exhausting…

How do I gently get my wishes into his head?

This page serves as the record of his progress.

Any suggestions?