Introductions discussion

Alright, I finally caved and placed an order for a device. My top priority is comfort, with looking discreet coming in second, so I chose the Birdlocked. Any security worries can be handled as they come up; I’m just hoping the fit works out. I hope my wife doesn’t mind it too much. I’ve kind of brought up the concept but want to do a real-world trial first to ensure it’s actually workable. I don’t need to overhaul our entire lifestyle for her—we’ve been doing an on-and-off female-orgasm only setup for roughly five years, which we both love—and so her holding the key isn’t really a problem at all. Simply put, unless hygiene demands it, there won’t be much unlocking happening. We spend nearly every waking moment together and followed the same routine until recently, but now I have about three hours each morning where I’m alone… and temptation has gotten to me one or two times. It’s high time I updated my ticker… For the moment, I’m trying not to get too optimistic. I figure I’ll likely need to tweak it slightly for better security and discretion, but I’m hoping it won’t be a complete bust. My aim is to have a solid reinforcement that makes any cheating obvious, hopefully keeping me secure or at least making an orgasm really tough. I don’t want to climax anymore, and my wife is okay with that; she enjoys receiving oral pleasure just as much as I enjoy giving it. We’ve never struggled with this style of intimacy in the past, only those lonely hours sometimes get the better of me. Hopefully it won’t show under clothes. Ideally, I could wear it to something active like a yoga class without looking out of place compared to anyone else wearing just jockstraps. My scrotum is quite flexible and my mechanical skills are decent, so I’m optimistic about that aspect. Wish me luck! The device should arrive sometime next week. After testing and any initial tweaks, assuming all goes well, I’ll be able to introduce it to her. I really hope she likes it and accepts it easily rather than thinking it looks ugly or too weird. The Birdlocked doesn’t look bad in this regard, but personal taste varies. I’m considering adding a sensual gift for her as a bribe to seal the deal. Gifts are always a safe bet. I was looking at upgrading her pearl thong to a Bracli.. but then I checked and realized it already is one—guess who knew! Victoria’s Secret must have rebranded it and sold it off, at least when they stocked it around six or seven years ago. We actually picked that up together in the store; we got quite an interesting reaction from the staff—one of them was so fond of it she was wearing one herself. You can imagine what fantasies that sparked in a man’s mind! Anyway, maybe I should get a double strand version? Though I’m not entirely sure if a double strand is more or less stimulating for her. Unfortunately, the standard size fits slightly loose on her, which might reduce the effect. Sorry for the long-winded spiral, but isn’t that what this forum is for? This has been an excellent spot to gather advice and do research. I’m glad it seems to focus on the broader side of this kink rather than being purely commercial or cluttered with fake profiles or having poor design like some sites have in recent years. Well done! It will be interesting to see if there is a forum dedicated specifically to female chastity as well..

**Good Luck** Fingers crossed!!!!