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Hi all. I’ve been lurking on these forums and in the chastity section for a while, and I've finally decided to jump in! I purchased a CB3000 and am…

member_dddd53db76 30 Aug 2026 #1

Hi all. I’ve been lurking on these forums and in the chastity section for a while, and I’ve finally decided to jump in! I purchased a CB3000 and am currently waiting for it to arrive. There are plenty of opinions online, but I’d love to hear from people with actual experience about what life is really like? How do those first few times go, and how does it feel afterwards? For now, I don’t have a key holder so I’ll be managing this solo, though I plan to get one down the road!

member_88acb492b7 30 Aug 2026 #2

You can expect quite a bit of experimentation with various ring and spacer sizes. Most folks find that a larger ring paired with a smaller spacer works best. Your mileage may vary though. Once you nail down the right combination for your body, it should be very comfortable to wear over long periods.

member_2a491127c4 1 Sept 2026 #3

I agree with Mark 121; take your time finding the right mix and you'll be able to wear it for a while. The devices are versatile enough to fit many different people, though what works for me might not work for you or even Mark121. This isn't just about picking any old thing off the shelf. Start with the longest post combined with the largest ring and spacer. Wear it for some time, then check if you can remove it easily. If so, swap out one component at a time, wear it again, and re-evaluate. If you notice swelling, discoloration, or pain at any stage, take it off immediately and step back to the previous configuration. The goal is denial without damaging your body parts. Don't stress if there's some empty space in the tube when soft; the design allows for growth. Also, try different lubricants to help things slide smoothly. I used to use pricey silicone oil as recommended by the maker, but discovered that inexpensive baby oil gel performs just as well at a fraction of the cost. Some folks opt for generic petroleum jelly (Vaseline) available cheaply at dollar stores. Good luck! Be patient and your body will let you know if the combination is wrong.

member_8c5a8c3585 1 Sept 2026 #4

To be honest: **I don't know much about chastity but I come here asking for advice.** That part aside... I've tried it again and am currently on my #2 real attempt to achieve what is called a "perfect fit." By perfect, I mean: 1. Healthy - I'm confident I won't hurt myself. 2. Long Term - Getting validation from the community that I'm doing this correctly and can sustain it. 3. My Split Personality - I am my own key holder! Believe it or not, I haven't unlocked myself in a few days. Initially, I used AstroGlide as lube, but it dried out too quickly for me. For instance, if I apply it before bed, the dryness wakes me up early morning. Now, however, I use Eucerin moisturizer instead. You can find more info on their site: My strategy for finding a fit so far has been: 1. Don't hesitate to ask questions. The more you learn, the better your experience will be. 2. Take pictures. If something seems off, capture it visually; seeing what we see helps us offer solutions. Check out my photo album "Chastity Problems." I'm not perfect and make plenty of errors. Welcome again to the CB3000 community! It feels great knowing another 3000 user is here. We can help each other out![:(data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)

member_dddd53db76 2 Sept 2026 #5

thanks tom it's nice to see another user here. I thought maybe I was the only one, or at least the only one posting! I was supposed to receive my device today but wasn't expecting it and had already gone out, so I requested redelivery on Monday when I know I'll be home. Now I just have to wait!?![:(data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)

member_2a491127c4 4 Sept 2026 #6

> fooforever said: > thanks tom > it is nice to see another user here i tought i was the only one, or the only one posting anyway! > i should have taken delivery of my device today but was not expecting it and was out, so i asked for a redelivery on monday when im sure i can be in > i will just have to wait!?:( > Click to expand... It's not that you're new to this whole thing; it's just that everyone else was at the same stage as you right now. Don't be shy about asking questions, because like my father once said, "The only stupid question is the one you **DON'T** ask, which could get you **HURT** or even **KILLED**." Good luck and I hope your wait goes smoothly.

member_dddd53db76 5 Sept 2026 #7

Well, I got my device on Monday and have been testing it since. I started with the second largest ring and biggest spacer, which seems to be a fairly comfortable setup for now. One issue I've noticed is that I seem to stay in a heightened state of arousal while wearing it, which isn't always comfy. This also pushes the device away from my body slightly, making it more visible. Probably just me though lol.

member_66c2ca678d 6 Sept 2026 #8

Actually, that's quite normal. If you're interested in and aroused by the idea of chastity, then placing yourself in it—or having someone else lock the belt on—will naturally arouse you. You'll likely remain somewhat aroused while wearing it too. My slave Methos had exactly similar issues. Although he is currently locked into The Curve system, his arousal levels still nearly reach their peak when stimulated. For the first week or so after being released and then relocked, he's almost constantly frustrated 24/7. Mornings and late evenings seem to be the toughest times for him, unless I decide to take special interest in teasing and frustrating him further. During that initial fortnight, early mornings were particularly difficult as his erection gets clamped down while sleeping, waking him two or three times a night. I know you might not consider yourself advanced yet, but I do recommend spending at least 3 to 4 weeks with the CB before experimenting with more advanced features like the Points of Intrigue (POI). While it's tempting to try everything quickly right away, it's usually better to wait and gauge your reaction over time before moving into those more complex areas. MK

member_dddd53db76 7 Sept 2026 #9

Yeah, I think if I keep busy with something else, I might forget about wearing it and eventually settle in. I'm definitely going to let myself get used to the device before playing around with things like the POI (which I do have a set of). Do you think that would solve my problem?

member_66c2ca678d 8 Sept 2026 #10

Right now, your approach is correct. Just focus on something else; engaging in creative activities is always beneficial. Try to shift your attention elsewhere—perhaps some writing or drawing—to take your mind off sexuality and the belt itself. MK