Introductions discussion

someone i was chatting with randomly recommended this place. as you can tell, i don’t have a mistress and lack decent photos. i’m keen on the community and would appreciate any advice? xx

Have you checked out "altairboy"? This is also an excellent spot to begin, with lots of welcoming members.

Search engines are a good starting point. Type in BDSM or Chastity and you’ll discover countless sites online. is one of the best places to start. I was already coupled up when I really got into BDSM and the Chastity lifestyle, but I always knew i had a kinky side. Initially we experimented with handcuffs and similar gear, but quickly started searching google for new play ideas. Assuming you are single? If so, there are many clubs across the UK, surprisingly enough; most seem to be in London around Soho, Vauxhall, and Camden. If meeting someone face-to-face seems too much right now, there are plenty of dating websites tailored specifically for those interested in BDSM.

i stumbled upon a good one named Informed Consent but i need to wait seven days post-registration so they can verify i'm not a spam bot.

Hey Dan, you might want to expand on that link for Informed Consent. I tried several variations and found nothing but an eye surgery site called (.com, .net, .ws, .biz all came up empty; as did any with an '_' between the words). Where is the actual content? Should I just check this board's links section?

it's i discovered it by using google and searching for bdsm; it ranked near the top.