Introductions discussion

I’m just starting out with this in real life…though if I count up the fantasies, it’s been decades. I’ve had ropes around me, received whips and spans, taken floggings, and put up with endless torture to my nipples, loving every bit of it. Yet I never quite gathered the courage to ask a woman to try T+D/Chastity/CBT on me. It crosses my mind constantly.

The fantasy that wins for me is being pushed right to the brink of climax over and over, only to have something happen to my testicles—busted, squeezed, kicked, or… whatever it takes—just before I let go, leaving me desperate for release or relief. Naturally, I’d do just about anything to finally cum. Then, after submitting to some humiliating or painful act, I get locked back up in chastity still unsatisfied. Of course, there are dozens (alright, I’ll admit it) hundreds of detailed variations on this theme…I’m not sure if the reality would hold up for me.

I’ve tried experimenting by myself…it didn’t go well. No matter how hard I push, I know I could never hit or squeeze my balls quite like they should when they aren’t just mine. And denying myself an orgasm?!?! Ha. Total and utter failure.

So here is my question for all you (un)lucky folks: How bad does it get?

Well there, man. You sound like a normal, healthy sort of guy. And if that’s the case, you’re jerking off daily. Maybe even more than once. So was I—1 to 4 times a day. Here is my experience after being locked up permanently: IE: The Key Holder controls my release. It takes roughly three days for the frustration to start creeping in. At this stage, you’ll find yourself unable to keep your hands off your key holder. After a week, you’re trying hard not to escape while still wearing the device, and now you are prime slave material. Anything for a cumming. By two weeks, you hit peak horniness. You can’t look at anything attractive without causing swelling in the cage. Your key holder will have all your attention, and you’ll do ANYTHING for release. What is the one thing you absolutely won't do? Take it up the backside? Give a blowjob? Get gang-banged by four guys? Go ahead and say no to any of them... but you'll still do it. I've lived through that slogan: "Be Careful What You Wish For"!

My goodness yes, giving up that sort of control... That is precisely what makes chastity so alluring.... I have a list of things I thought would "never happen" under any circumstances. The idea that within just a few weeks I’d be begging to do them (shiver) has me wondering if perhaps I’m afraid I won’t be able to stop myself. hehe

> qdust said: > So my question is for all you (un)lucky people out there is: > How bad does it get? Terrible! The absolute worst!