Introductions discussion

Hi all, I’ve visited this site before, and now I’m returning. I have a question for both submissives and Mistresses… where exactly do you find a Mistress? I’ve been part of the lifestyle for years, but mostly by myself so far. How can I move up to having a dominant Mistress as well? Any tips or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

Welcome! I don't have specific advice on finding a mistress since my boyfriend brought it up for me, but others here should be able to assist. I believe there's a section dedicated to connecting with Mistresses or subs. Hope you enjoy your time here!:)

Welcome to the community! OK, my best suggestion is... Step away from the screen and head out to local events!!! I notice you're in Wisconsin. Look for a nearby munch group and start meeting others involved in this lifestyle. It might seem intimidating at first, but it really isn't. The more people you connect with, the easier it becomes to meet that special woman... Or perhaps not!![;)] Make sure to upload a photo of yourself and complete your profile thoroughly! Being open about who you are makes you appear more authentic. Unfortunately, a dominant partner won't just fall into your lap no matter how much you hope for her. You need to make the first move. Best wishes on finding what you seek:D