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It has been more than five years since a Lady put the collar on me. With my MBA degree now in hand, I want to begin the journey of finding a Lady who will let me prove I can serve her as Tracy or Bob, should that be what she wants. The challenge lies in locating a Lady willing to give me an equitable opportunity. Tracy

Best wishes on your search. Try keeping as open-minded as possible, but don't accept just anyone who can't connect with your submission. It isn't worth the complications that could follow.

Dear Tracy, finding the right Lady can sometimes take years. You just have to never lose hope. Be truthful about your identity and what you expect from such a relationship, but even more importantly, clearly define what your unconditioned input will be. As we often say here, "there is a lid for every saucepan," and I am confident you will find yours... sooner or later. Hugs and good luck, Maid Katrin

Maid Katrin is spot on:) It really does take time and a lot of effort. I've been in a relationship with Mistress Michelle for over three years now, making many mistakes along the way—mostly regarding my personal life which had nothing to do with her or anything else... Lucky for me, she and her wonderful pet have walked through it all together. If I were them, I'd probably have kicked my ass out by now! But I improve and always try a little harder. What I'm trying to say is: take your time, walk the talk rather than just talking the walk. Wonderful things can come from the honesty found in a person; that's all a Mistress truly expects (well, more than that actually), but it's a great place to start... Life is short, live it my friend:) By the way, love and a curtsey from Mistress Michelle:spankwhip: