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Hello E/everyone! I am a 21-year-old submissive male residing in NYC, widely considered the best city on Earth. My interest in female-led relationships…

member_9a01c99b92 30 Aug 2026 #1

Hello E/everyone! I am a 21-year-old submissive male residing in NYC, widely considered the best city on Earth. My interest in female-led relationships dates back to high school, but it was only recently that I truly embraced this as my desire. Consequently, I am actively exploring online platforms with the dual goals of mastering what it means to be a good submissive and potentially finding a Mistress or girlfriend who can provide the fulfilling dynamic I have missed throughout my life. While chastity is just one piece of the puzzle in such relationships, I look forward to experiencing that joy soon as well. My hope is to learn from all of you wonderful members here and hear about your personal Y/your stories.

member_3d7705e8f0 1 Sept 2026 #2

"Welcome nycsub![:(" Have you begun looking for a chastity device yet? Is there anything that stands out to you? mikecb

member_9a01c99b92 9 Sept 2026 #3

Yes, I have. The Birdlocked seems like it would likely be my pick, and since my flaccid penis is quite small, I'd probably go with the smaller size. Naturally, I am hoping to find a Mistress or girlfriend for whom I can wear the device.