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Greetings everyone. I've been digging into the research and trying to figure out if there's a non-full-steel option that fits my needs. Previously, I gave…

member_82e4707dd6 30 Aug 2026 #1

Greetings everyone. I’ve been digging into the research and trying to figure out if there’s a non-full-steel option that fits my needs.

Previously, I gave both an Exobelt V1 and an Exobelt Extreme a shot but didn’t find long-term success with them. Essentially, when I’m flaccid, I just come up too small.

With the V1, I can actually pull my penis back out through the ball-trap rings while flaccid, leaving it outside the device entirely. My testicles stay put; I wouldn’t be able to push them out or try without feeling discomfort. Being uncircumcised might play a role here. There’s quite a bit of give in there, and I need something that keeps me down inside the tube so I don’t shrivel up and slip out.

My top priorities are security, real-world comfort, and being able to pass as undetectable. Ideally, I could wear it to work without people noticing. My budget is a bit tight for a full belt if possible, though. So I’m wondering if there have been some clever innovations from the new wave of device makers that might help smaller fellows.

Thanks in advance for your insights:)

member_3d7705e8f0 31 Aug 2026 #2

chimi, For us smaller guys, devices with trapped balls tend to be easier to escape. Have you thought about getting a PA piercing? mikecb

member_82e4707dd6 1 Sept 2026 #3

> mikecb said: > chimi, > For us smaller guys, devices with trapped balls tend to be easier to escape. Have you thought about getting a PA piercing? > mikecb > Click to expand... Hi mikecb, I'd prefer to avoid piercings. Nothing wrong with them personally, they just didn't feel like the right fit for me. Is there any other way to maintain security without going for a full belt?

member_654b9daad4 2 Sept 2026 #4

A piercing can be cut. A full belt can be cut. Absolute security is really just an ideal. What we can hope for is a chastity device that won't come off quickly during moments of weakness, and one where you can't escape without the keyholder noticing.

member_82e4707dd6 3 Sept 2026 #5

> Jabber43 said: > A piercing can be cut. A full belt can be cut. Absolute security is really just an ideal. > What we can hope for is a chastity device that won't come off quickly during moments of weakness, > and one where you can't escape without the keyholder noticing. > Click to expand... Obviously, perfect, total security is more of an abstract idea than reality. But my question goes further: aside from a full belt or PA piercing, do any options actually exist for small guys who tend to shrivel out of standard trapped-ball devices? There's definitely a whole demographic here:P I'm just wondering if anyone has found that these non-full-belt designs work well for smaller fellows. Larger men seem happy with many options, but I need something I can't easily slip out of... assuming such a thing exists.

member_565c9071de 4 Sept 2026 #6

We are looking at getting a Mature Metal device. Something around under 2 inches long and maybe 1/1/8 inch in diameter. My wife thinks I need about 2 inches, but my flaccid measurement is closer to 1.5. We have a PA piercing currently - we want true erection control. Having tried many devices before, I hope this one finally resolves the issues we've had with others. I usually don't like using a PA with chastity setups, but with something this small, it might be viable. For now, we'll try without relying on it. The key is having something secure that can stay in place for 60-90 days at a time and still allow cleaning without removal.

member_5acc0673e6 6 Sept 2026 #7

Slipping or pulling out while flaccid is a common issue. I know you mentioned not wanting a PA piercing, but it's an effective solution. I do agree with Jabber43 that they can be cut, though the keyholder will likely notice if this happens. The idea behind slipping out undetected is to have some fun and then slip back in as if nothing happened. I have a PA piercing myself, which seems to solve this problem for me. Currently, I'm locked in a fort chastity device with a 7mm pa ring secured by a wire rope through the piercing. It's not possible to remove the pa ring because the screw-on ball won't pass out of the slot at the tip of the fort. I know I could cut the wire rope, but my KH would definitely spot that. So, I'm quite happy with my PA solution.

member_654b9daad4 7 Sept 2026 #8

I know that feeling of slipping out. It happened to me with my first device (a CB-3000) when I started wearing it. The cause was using a ring size too large for me. It was actually the first time I escaped without trying; during the night, I woke up and found my penis had slipped free while my testicles remained trapped. Very annoying. My issue is that I'm more of a grower, so sometimes I get quite small. Now using a CB-6000s which fits me well. It might be possible to pull out when completely soft (I don't know for sure because I haven't tried), but the security inserts like KSD-G3 could help, although I haven't been able to wear them long-term. A piercing might assist, though I'm not keen on getting one either. Fortunately, when I am really aroused, my device is secure and escape-proof.

member_748ee20fa3 8 Sept 2026 #9

> chimichanga said: > I have in the past tried both an Exobelt V1 and Exobelt Extreme with no long term luck. I'm basically, when flacid, just too small. > Click to expand... I understand that Looker v1 and Looker v2 (and similar models) are considered "impossible" to escape. The penis size probably doesn't matter much there. I haven't tried them personally, but I find it hard to believe... Well, just look at the pictures below. The concept really appeals to me and I'd be very willing to give Looker 02 a go. My only (too?) concern is potential issues with the urethra. To put it simply: I haven't quite dared yet.