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Been hanging around for several days and finally decided to register and say hello. Currently self-locked in a CB-3000, which sets me apart from most users…

member_cf864b6d38 30 Aug 2026 #1

Been hanging around for several days and finally decided to register and say hello. Currently self-locked in a CB-3000, which sets me apart from most users here since I don’t really want a keyholder. I picked up the cage some time ago just for fun and wanted to test it out; locking myself inside has helped curb my masturbation habits. Before this, I was jerking off once or twice daily while working, and even more often when I had free time.

I enjoy cross-dressing and am building out a more feminine wardrobe. Since Monday afternoon, I’ve swapped my usual boxers for panties because the cage requires that extra support. Unlike many of the men on these boards, I tend to be dominant and hope one day to find a submissive woman who will let me lock her up in a female chastity belt.

I locked myself in on Monday morning and have been wearing it since then. However, I did slip up on Monday night during an erection; I unlocked the device and separated the cage from the ring while still erect. I kept both pieces attached but gave ‘him’ some space for a few minutes prior to that, using ice packs to reduce swelling. Later that evening, I took the whole thing off completely but resisted climaxing, though I did give him a little rub. Last night, multiple nighttime erections woke me up several times; I applied an ice pack each time to soothe things down. It was tempting enough to remove the cage repeatedly, and it required serious willpower not to do so. I even fumbled with the key once but managed to put it back down. Those nocturnal ereptions are torture! I hope he adjusts to being caged soon and stops trying so hard to break free.

I’m aiming for a full week without cumming; we shall see how it goes.