Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve been in my cage for nearly two months now, and I have come to appreciate and respect my Jezebel/wife more than ever before. During this period, she has matured and realized the advantages of having me locked up. Now we are experimenting with new approaches that fit well with it. Does anyone have any suggestions? My wife struggles with being stern because her love for me runs deep, but I tell her it’s fine. I really hope she takes full command over me and disciplines me when I mess up.

All I can recommend is that you offer suggestions on things she could try, allowing her to discover what suits her. My wife has discovered a real enjoyment in crushing my testicles, even though she mostly shares your wife's opinion of not being too harsh with me. Give it some time and let her find her own way into domination. It might also help if you attend local fetish events; she may spot something there that appeals to her.

Direct her toward two resources... 1) CollarNcuffs and 2)Becoming a Mistress. Both of these websites are designed for the average woman who wants to learn more about being a mistress to her husband. They target 'normal' everyday women, allowing them to gather plenty of ideas without YOUR pressure on them. You might be pleasantly surprised by the transformation!