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Hello everyone, Pamela here. I figured it was high time to make my entrance. My wife and Mistress bought a CB3000 for us several years back after we browsed…

member_73b83c82a2 30 Aug 2026 #1

Hello everyone, Pamela here. I figured it was high time to make my entrance.

My wife and Mistress bought a CB3000 for us several years back after we browsed the options online (she picked out the neon one). We haven’t used it much yet, mostly dabbling in short-term play now and then. The longest I’ve stayed locked up was three days; however, the hinge at the bottom of the ring tends to become quite painful after just a day or so.

It is likely her favorite toy though, so late last year I did some digging and discovered that placing a short latex tube over the hinge significantly improved comfort during longer periods.

So, on New Year’s Eve, I gave my Mistress a coupon giving her control of me as a slave for 72 hours (please see the first attached coupon below). Before those three days had even passed, I decided to give her another one extending that time by six more days because we both ended up with strep throat. Then on Saturday night, I followed it up with an “incident resolution” letter (see attachment) which reset the timer due to the “unauthorized removal of the chastity device” for a doctor’s visit. This has now pushed the original coupon out to a total of 15 days.

My wife/Mistress is really loving receiving and using these coupons. I don’t plan on extending them much past this Saturday, but she’s giving me hints that she intends to keep me under lock and key regardless. Since starting all this, I find myself visiting “the community” here several times a day. Thanks for the wonderful information and ideas. I’ll try to update my profile with my status.

Pamela

member_5778b0d078 31 Aug 2026 #2

Is she signed up on this site? If not, encourage her to join. If she is already here, she can find everything she needs to get what she wants as long as she goes about it correctly... Joro > pamelamask said: > Hello everyone, Pamela here. I figured it was high time to make my entrance. > > My wife and Mistress bought a CB3000 for us several years back after we browsed the options online (she picked out the neon one). We haven't used it much yet, mostly dabbling in short-term play now and then. The longest I've stayed locked up was three days; however, the hinge at the bottom of the ring tends to become quite painful after just a day or so. > > It is likely her favorite toy though, so late last year I did some digging and discovered that placing a short latex tube over the hinge significantly improved comfort during longer periods. > > So, on New Year's Eve, I gave my Mistress a coupon giving her control of me as a slave for 72 hours (please see the first attached coupon below). Before those three days had even passed, I decided to give her another one extending that time by six more days because we both ended up with strep throat. Then on Saturday night, I followed it up with an "incident resolution" letter (see attachment) which reset the timer due to the "unauthorized removal of the chastity device" for a doctor's visit. This has now pushed the original coupon out to a total of 15 days. > > My wife/Mistress is really loving receiving and using these coupons. I don't plan on extending them much past this Saturday, but she's giving me hints that she intends to keep me under lock and key regardless. Since starting all this, I find myself visiting "the community" here several times a day. Thanks for the wonderful information and ideas. I'll try to update my profile with my status. > > Pamela > Click to expand...

member_357ee9798c 1 Sept 2026 #3

[font="'Comic Sans MS"]Hello![/font] [font="'Comic Sans MS"] [/font] [font="'Comic Sans MS"]Welcome to the mansion. I am glad you have been enjoying chastity and hope your wife takes the plunge and keeps you that way lol.[/font] [font="'Comic Sans MS"] [/font] [font="'Comic Sans MS"]Aeya.[/font] > pamelamask said: > Hello everyone, Pamela here. I figured it was high time to make my entrance. > > My wife and Mistress bought a CB3000 for us several years back after we browsed the options online (she picked out the neon one). We haven't used it much yet, mostly dabbling in short-term play now and then. The longest I've stayed locked up was three days; however, the hinge at the bottom of the ring tends to become quite painful after just a day or so. > > It is likely her favorite toy though, so late last year I did some digging and discovered that placing a short latex tube over the hinge significantly improved comfort during longer periods. > > So, on New Year's Eve, I gave my Mistress a coupon giving her control of me as a slave for 72 hours (please see the first attached coupon below). Before those three days had even passed, I decided to give her another one extending that time by six more days because we both ended up with strep throat. Then on Saturday night, I followed it up with an "incident resolution" letter (see attachment) which reset the timer due to the "unauthorized removal of the chastity device" for a doctor's visit. This has now pushed the original coupon out to a total of 15 days. > > My wife/Mistress is really loving receiving and using these coupons. I don't plan on extending them much past this Saturday, but she's giving me hints that she intends to keep me under lock and key regardless. Since starting all this, I find myself visiting "the community" here several times a day. Thanks for the wonderful information and ideas. I'll try to update my profile with my status. > > Pamela > Click to expand...

member_c8b8200999 2 Sept 2026 #4

Yay Pamela - what a clever format to share with your Mistress. Thinking that She is happy with the system that you have enacted. Welcome in and keep the posting coming. Welcome in. Aline

member_73b83c82a2 3 Sept 2026 #5

Hi Joro, no I haven't shown her this site (yet). I'm not sure I want her to have all of these tools at her disposal just yet. the referenced community page > Joroincharge said: > Is she signed up on this site? If not, encourage her to join. If she is already here, she can find everything she needs to get what she wants as long as she goes about it correctly... > > Joro > Click to expand...

member_73b83c82a2 5 Sept 2026 #6

Aline, thanks for the post. Yes, she is very happy when I am locked in chastity. She says this should be our new normal. She let me out after 13 days on January 13th because she wanted to have intercourse. Then she regretted letting me go and has been trying to get me back under lock since then. She challenged me to a game of Scrabble last Saturday night - if she wins, I get locked up for two days or perhaps longer; if I win, she has to be my servant for two days. Well, she won by a huge margin and last night she locked me up again. We'll see... Pamela > Sissy_Aline said: > Yay Pamela - what a clever format to share with your Mistress. Thinking that She is happy with the system that you have enacted. Welcome in and keep the posting coming. Welcome in. > > Aline > Click to expand...

member_73b83c82a2 6 Sept 2026 #7

Aeya, she would keep me this way permanently if she could. She has me back under her control at the moment. Pamela > Aeya said: > [font="'Comic Sans MS"]Hello![/font] > > [font="'Comic Sans MS"] > [/font] > > [font="'Comic Sans MS"]Welcome to the mansion. I am glad you have been enjoying chastity and hope your wife takes the plunge and keeps you that way lol.[/font] > > [font="'Comic Sans MS"] > [/font] > > [font="'Comic Sans MS"]Aeya.[/font] > Click to expand...

member_5778b0d078 7 Sept 2026 #8

If she's not a member now then she surely should be.:)