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My wife and I have spent the last few years experimenting with T&D and cock cages. Within our dynamic, I am clearly the more kinky partner; her shift into…

member_595670beb2 28 Aug 2026 #1

My wife and I have spent the last few years experimenting with T&D and cock cages. Within our dynamic, I am clearly the more kinky partner; her shift into this lifestyle has been gradual but consistent. Lately, she seems to be hitting a new milestone as my KH, gradually assuming greater authority. We don’t have an official contract yet, so keeping me locked up is still largely for fun. However, she finds it somewhat awkward leveraging our power imbalance while I’m restrained. It’s hard for me to convey how much good could come from her embracing the link between my arousal and her ability to claim what she desires.

Feminization isn’t really my thing, though plenty of others here seem to enjoy it immensely. When I’m caged, I absolutely love performing oral on my wife, along with various other “standard” sexual activities, but I also crave a good spanking and strap-on play from her. I wouldn’t quite call myself a “pain slut,” yet even a touch of pain enhances the evening nicely. We currently own a CB-3000 and a modified CB-2000, and I’d be keen on buying that new fully enclosed cage—I believe it’s called the V-1.

Enough chattering for now; see you around.

member_1cca9321b2 31 Aug 2026 #2

Welcum to the site! Have fun!:tongue: