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Greetings everyone! I'm new here and wanted to say hello. I'm just starting out in the kink/lifestyle scene. I'm very open to experimentation and find much…

member_f272782479 31 Aug 2026 #1

Greetings everyone! I’m new here and wanted to say hello. I’m just starting out in the kink/lifestyle scene. I’m very open to experimentation and find much of what’s discussed here quite engaging. Recently, I bought my first CB as a step toward exploring this interest further =).

For those wondering, I’m 22/M, which means I got into this kink slightly earlier than most folks around me. Back when I was 19, I had a girlfriend with dominant traits. She was very sensual—offering biting, plenty of tickling/teasing, and words that could make my knees weak. Once, she threatened to chastise me. I don’t recall exactly what prompted it or if she said it again; it happened just once. At the time, while I knew about chastity, the concept didn’t really click for me yet. Now, looking back, I wish I had dug deeper into that comment.

Things didn’t work out with her, so here I am, single and living a fairly normal life. I’m seeking a relationship but haven’t met many women near my age who possess those dominant qualities that really appeal to me =p. On top of all this, it’s my final year at college, meaning adult responsibilities are looming on the horizon.

Anyway, excited to meet you all and add value to this community. I’m hoping for advice from everyone here along with a warm introduction as I navigate this kink/lifestyle journey. Feel free to ask me questions or chat if interested. Otherwise, I’ll dive straight into the discussions and hope to connect with many of you shortly!

member_e55fab181a 9 Sept 2026 #2

Hello W0nton and welcome!:welcome: It appears that chastees are becoming younger and younger these days. I'm not complaining at all though!;) Looking forward to getting to know you.