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Hi all, I've been lurking here for a while (mostly because of some activation issues - thanks to the admin!:)) and I feel it's time to say hello. I'm…

member_af27e3dc3b 31 Aug 2026 #1

Hi all, I’ve been lurking here for a while (mostly because of some activation issues - thanks to the admin!:)) and I feel it’s time to say hello. I’m Marcel, 29 years old, currently pursuing my MSc in material science here in Cologne, Germany. The basics are covered, now for the interesting stuff;) Why am I joining? Well - with a BDSM background, my first girlfriend introduced me to chastity back in ‘99 as part of our dynamic. Even though my most recent ex had minimal connection to it (let’s be generous), I’ve always been fascinated by it. Since finding someone who shares this preference and fits well with me seems quite difficult, I look forward to discussing various approaches to chastity or femdom relationships here. Best regards, Marcel

member_cc13a6e69b 31 Aug 2026 #2

Welcome Marcel, Soo Young, and anyone else wanting Chastity to be a part of your life. Ahhhh if only that had happened for me at that age.. I would have gone crazy, well depending on who you ask, maybe I still am. I'm sure you will enjoy your Chastity journey here. Thanks for joining us all, Missy Tanya

member_e248a7ba34 3 Sept 2026 #3

Hello Marcel, welcome to the Mansion and greetings from another German member [Image: smile.gif] . Have fun here, maid katrin

member_af27e3dc3b 5 Sept 2026 #4

Thanks for the warm welcome:) Do I want to become chastity become a part of my (so young?^^) life? Sure - to some degree, but most certainly not to the degree some people here found for themselfs. And in a way that's the reason / problem that lead me here. But that should be a topic for some other time. Once again thank's for your welcome, Marcel

member_58d6f16cac 8 Sept 2026 #5

Welcome to the site Marcel! > Shimone said: > I was introduced to chastity (as part of our BDSM life) by my first girlfriend in '99 and even though my last girlfrind hat little relation to it (to put it generously) i am stil intrigued by it. > Click to expand... Oh wow, that's quite young. I hope you two were practicing chastity then as well?;-) > Shimone said: > But due to the fact that it's obviously very hard to find someone who shares this preference in a way that fits me I am looking forward to discuss different ways of chastity or femdom relationships with you. > Click to expand... I've had some nice help from the male chastity blog ( to get my wife into male chastity. Perhaps you can use the hints & tips there on your GF?