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I’ve been chatting with a woman I connected with on a BDSM dating site for about five months. We’ve tried hard to arrange an in-person meeting, but between her demanding work schedule and my recent stress levels, we haven’t quite managed it yet. Our dynamic has improved more than anticipated, leading us to explore a relationship that blends both vanilla and BDSM elements to see where it leads. Since our physical meetup might be delayed further, we’ve chosen to experiment with a chastity device to keep things engaging while we wait for the big day. I got my hands on the Birdlocked Mini along with its plastic locks just a few days ago and secured myself in it today to begin roughly one month of chastity. I’m not entirely sure what lies ahead, but I must admit I’m quite thrilled. Please share any advice regarding this relationship dynamic or tips for making this month smoother if you have them. I’ll post updates as we go along. Thank you all for bearing with my long message. I can upload photos if anyone is interested. [[Image]](the referenced community page)

Congratulations on your first attempt. I've experienced similar situations and eventually found both a suitable device and, more crucially, a devoted wife who enjoys playing with me. I struggled initially with the birdlock model. It's an excellent piece of equipment, but by day two, fluid accumulated in my shaft causing it to swell. There is a specific term for this condition, though I've forgotten what it is called. I had to remove the device until things returned to normal. I also widened the front opening so that urinating while standing wouldn't cause too much splatter. The birdlock is still a wonderful device overall, but it simply wasn't right for me. M