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Hi there, I'm alone for a week but my wife left without locking me up even though she likes to lock me and cross dress me. Would anyone like to own me in…

member_b233c87f94 31 Aug 2026 #1

Hi there, I’m alone for a week but my wife left without locking me up even though she likes to lock me and cross dress me. Would anyone like to own me in the meantime, tell me what to do? I have Curve, CB2000, CB3000, and Houdini belts (but being on the large size it is very difficult to get into the Houdini). I have some butt plugs, ball weights, wrist and ankle cuffs, and lots of lingerie, including, stockings, pantyhose, girdles, bras, mini skirts, slips, g-strings, some dresses, no sexy shoes to speak of. I can wear anything underneath my work clothes and sleep wearing anything you like. I have also worn mini-skirts and lingerie when going out at night so if would like dare me to wear anything outside I am more than willing. You are welcome to suggest anything else including looking for something I don’t have;I am fine shopping for women’s clothes in public. I will post pictures as requested, tell me what you would like to see. Enjoy the week!

member_cc13a6e69b 1 Sept 2026 #2

First thought was that you need a longer skirt from the looks of your profile picture. But if I was so taken, you wouldn't be having that problem anymore. I feel that you should lock yourself up, just out of respect for your wife. Then spend as much time as your girly side can. At least one shopping trip and buy the wife a nice, sexy lingerie outfit to surprise her when she gets home. While out shopping for her, you must get your own pair of sexy heels. Wearing them every evening till beddy by time. One night in total bondage, then by the end of the week you being soo horny at will to do anything, go out on the town as sexy as you dare. Pictures of being out and about required. Then when you return home from the night of frustration, ride your biggest dildo till you can't take anymore. Then just roll over with it still buried deep inside, dreaming of what it feels like to be a lucky woman fill with cock. You whore you!!! Did I give you any ideas? Missy Tanya

member_b233c87f94 2 Sept 2026 #3

Thought I would start by myself. I have am now locked in my CB2000. I have placed all four keys to a unique miniature lock in a large cup of water in the freezer to prevent a quick escape. I had a big hard on getting ready and I so wanted to masturbate but it would not be right with my wife away. I found some tight fitting sheer lace panties that my wife and I share (I originally got them for me but she likes them too). So I am wearing the panties. I've been thinking of asking my wife if she would like to be on the giving instead of the receiving end for a change by taking me in the ass with a dildo. In preparation I thought I would spend this week in butt plug training. So starting today I am going to wear a butt plug for as long as possible each day. I have a small one to start with but I can switch to a large one later. I might sleep with the large one each night. I have some errands to run so I am going out locked with my plug and panties. I welcome any suggestions you might have. I did find a pair of heels.

member_b233c87f94 4 Sept 2026 #4

> Missy Tanya said: > First thought was that you need a longer skirt from the looks of your profile picture. But if I was so taken, you wouldn't be having that problem anymore. I feel that you should lock yourself up, just out of respect for your wife. Then spend as much time as your girly side can. At least one shopping trip and buy the wife a nice, sexy lingerie outfit to surprise her when she gets home. While out shopping for her, you must get your own pair of sexy heels. Wearing them every evening till beddy by time. > One night in total bondage, then by the end of the week you being soo horny at will to do anything, go out on the town as sexy as you dare. Pictures of being out and about required. Then when you return home from the night of frustration, ride your biggest dildo till you can't take anymore. Then just roll over with it still buried deep inside, dreaming of what it feels like to be a lucky woman fill with cock. You whore you!!! > Did I give you any ideas? Missy Tanya > Click to expand... Thank you so much Missy Tanya. You look so sexy. I love to wear skirts that are too short for me to stay completely covered. The feeling of being vulnerable to being exposed to people turns me on so much; in fact it is a catch 22, the harder I get the worse the problem... I thought it best to lock myself up to avoid any mistakes. I like the idea of keeping myself girly as much as possible. I think I will look for something sexy now when I go out. Good idea. I'll look for some heels (ones I found are rather tight). Sleeping in bondage is a great idea. I have done that before, sleeping locked hand and foot in chains. I will make sure to go out tonight wearing something sexy. I'll see what pictures I can get. Ok, I will ride my biggest dildo each night. The big butt plug I have has a vibrator as well. I can try teasing myself with it by not cumming and then go to sleep holding it in. I would love to get used to being stimulated in my ass and eventually prefer this to having intercourse. Then I can stay girly and vulnerable for her in bed. Looking forward to getting a good fucking from my wife now...

member_b233c87f94 5 Sept 2026 #5

I've been staying girly as much as I can, wearing a mini skirt, sheer panties and open bottom corselette. I went out still locked with the small butt plug. I had problems walking around the first store I went to as the plug kept working its way out, like a badly fitting tampon. I had to keep pushing it back in when I thought no one was looking. I went back home after this and switched the butt plug for a pair of vibrating love balls and then went out again. These stayed in much better and felt so good as I walked around the shopping mall, but I am unable to get hard of course. In the mall I went into the lingerie store and asked for larger sizes. I talked to most of the girls working there as they directed me and kept asking if I needed help; of course they did not know I was locked in a chastity belt with vibrating balls in my ass. I looked for something sexy for my wife. Most things are in tiny sizes so I did not find much. I did get three sheer panties, two full cut and one thong. My wife will like these. Of course I have to try them out first. I then walked to a department store and looked around the lingerie section there. Didn't see much and no one asked if I needed any help, but I did find a sheer baby doll that matches the panties. I was not successful in finding any heels, but I will keep looking. I took the love balls out and had a fun time riding up and down on my dildo. It was so nice pushing this cock in and out of my girly pussy. I did not want to cum so I stopped and inserted the large butt plug for the rest of the evening. I went to bed with it still inside. I tried to find everything I have to sleep in bondage, but I could not find the heavy chain I have. I will look for this today and plan to lock my hands and feet together tonight. Today I made breakfast in a nylon mini slip and the baby doll. When I go out I will put the love balls back in to enjoy the vibrations. I plan on keeping my butt plugged continuously for the rest of the week until my wife returns home to service it. Back to work tomorrow and for the rest of the week. What shall I wear to work? I can look normal on the outside, but underneath anything goes! I'm staying locked of course, but tell me if I should try different things in my ass as well as what to wear underneath. I ran out of time today to go out, but I did take pictures of me in the baby doll and different panties. The last picture shows a padlock hanging from the loop of the love balls in my ass. It felt so good swinging between my legs; I got dripping wet doing this. [[Image: IMG_0003.JPG]](the referenced community page)[[Image: IMG_0004.JPG]](the referenced community page)[[Image: IMG_0013.JPG]](the referenced community page)[[Image: IMG_0633.JPG]](the referenced community page)[[Image: IMG_0627.JPG]](the referenced community page)

member_4edd4a3de8 6 Sept 2026 #6

I love your thread. So will your wife when she comes back from holiday. Have her write her appreciation of how well you behave during her holiday. Maybe she will bring you back some nice pics form her trip? Will she be more naughty than you did? Keep us informed. I hope you finally find a nice pair of heels that fits well. If you didn't yet, make sure you try them in the store before you pay for them. You wouldn't want to have to return them back...

member_b233c87f94 7 Sept 2026 #7

Sorry I have not come back to this for so long. All my time has been taking up moving house, but things have settled down now so I should have more time. I spent most of Sunday in a very tight control panties and waist cincher. It has an open crotch so my pussy can stay exposed. The panties held a dildo inside me that felt so good as I walked around. As well as the dildo I had snap on leather straps around my balls to help me stay hard and wet. I had to walk down the drive to the mailbox to collect my mail. Of course I had to dress up. So I put on a sheer white baby doll that rubbed on the top of my pussy as I walked. The mailbox is 30 seconds walk from the house and it is completely exposed to cars passing on the road with almost nowhere to hide. It was almost dark when I went outside in full view of other houses and everything went well until I reached into the box. Just then two cars suddenly came around the bend with their headlights pointing right at me with my white baby doll and hard pussy exposed. I had to jump very quickly behind the only tree available to avoid giving them a full frontal. I am sure at least the first car saw me but I hope they did not see much. When I was walking back several more cars passed by and I felt a need to run and hide but I managed to avoid being in their headlights. My heart was really pounding when I made it back to the house finally. I will put together some pictures of me dressed up so you can see how I looked. I first need to find the camera, which has gone missing. I was able to play and dress up this weekend as my wife was away. She knows what I like and all the toys I have, but aside from some curiosity has not been very interested in getting involved. The stress of moving and work recently has been difficult for us. I am going to suggest to her that I be locked for a while and practice keeping the love balls inside me during the week. I think I need some more control and training to focus. She does like spanking and being spanked so perhaps I can pique her interest that way. I would love to be locked, plugged and spanked. She does like dressing me sometimes and the best time recently was a blow job she gave me as I wore a mini skirt, stockings, heels, bra, top and lipstick. Since I tend to work alone late in the evenings sometimes, I would like to dress up as the office slut in stockings, heels, skirt, bra and afterwards drive home. Perhaps I can surprise my wife when I arrive dressed as a prostitute for her!

member_b233c87f94 9 Sept 2026 #8

I have talked to my wife and she is in enthusiastic agreement that I should spend more time locked and dressed. She wants to choose when I am locked and when I get released. She also wants to decide what I should wear each day. Both of us has a good lingerie and clothing collection (she has far more clothes, but I have more lingerie), and she wants to borrow my things and she happy to let me use hers. I have been locked for the last two days and have worn a tight thong and open crotch pantyhose to work. She knows this and is anticipating me coming home. She will be holding the keys from now on and I hear some spanking is in order tonight for which I will be on the receiving end. She would like me to change into a girdle when I get home. It may help perk my ass up for her to spank. It is going to be an interesting weekend and more! I am looking forward to it.