Introductions discussion

I know I should introduce myself… so HI! i am the D in a D/s relationship. I was looking for information on good chastity devices because what we have been using isn’t working anymore.

Welcome Dame Cinder Flame. Cute name, I like it. Well as for you question about which Chastity device, that's might as well be the million dollar question. To each his or hers own. But I feel without a piercing to lock to on with, any one could be escaped from most types. I have a Neosteel She-Male Sports Belt which I luv wearing. I'm my own K/H but just knowing I could slip out at times, and might be able to, well cheat, just removes some of the thrill. I've only slipped out once, just to see if I could, and didn't try to orgasm. But now that I have a PA, just the jewelry makes it much more difficult, and painful. But I've been looking into a Lori's Device for sometime. The thought of being locked and no way, no how, I'm getting out of without the key is something I have to try someday. I've been thinking of getting a rod that I can insert inside my pee hole, l and use the PA to lock to inside me, then screw a t-bar though the hole in the end of my penis tube. Once I'm locked away and the shield is coving the t-bar, I'm stuck!! Well enough of my thoughts. Hope you find what your looking for and it works out for you both.. Missy Tanya