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A Dutch gay man (age 35) seeking a partner for a mutual chastity game. Here’s the plan: - We both wear locks on each other, ideally using plastic…

member_343088b836 31 Aug 2026 #1

A Dutch gay man (age 35) seeking a partner for a mutual chastity game.

Here’s the plan:

  • We both wear locks on each other, ideally using plastic combination padlocks
  • The objective is to stay locked up for as long as we can manage
  • Whoever unlocks first loses
  • The loser completes an assignment agreed upon before locking up
  • In the meantime, we send each other (daring) tasks, potentially meeting up for a horny session or finding other ways to tease one another. The rules are open to discussion! Long distance works well, provided I can verify assignments via webcam and digital photos. Sending daring videos is also an option (perhaps Xtube?).
member_bf1c969e5a 2 Sept 2026 #2

I really like the concept, though I'll need to check with my wife first. She's generally fine with it as long as I ask beforehand.

member_343088b836 5 Sept 2026 #3

That would be great. Let me know once you have an update so we can discuss the specifics.

member_c1a1e4aa10 8 Sept 2026 #4

*Hi there. I'd definitely give it a try, though naturally I'm based in England. Can we sort out how to handle that? . Morpheus .*