Introductions discussion

This is my debut post, though I’ve been lurking here for quite some time. When I was first exploring my sexuality, I discovered chastity and BDSM online and became instantly captivated. It has remained a constant sexual fantasy ever since. Currently, I’m in an open-minded relationship with a girl. We are both switches who lean more towards being submissive than dominant. We try to take turns leading so we each get our moment submitting. As you can see from my profile picture, I have a CB3000. We’ve played around with it a few times, but the belt has tended to chafe the underside of my balls and the mechanism would pinch my skin. My girlfriend is very protective of both my testicles and penis, so any injury was unacceptable for her. As a result, the CB spent most of its time in our toy drawer. Well, college is finally behind me and I have a good job lined up with a whole month of leisure ahead. She’s been laid off and returning to school, giving us that rare month of low-stress downtime. I recently sat down with my belt and after some tinkering found that using a thin rubber band around the locking peg as a gasket keeps the parts from wiggling loose. I trimmed down the posts further and meticulously polished their ends. Additionally, my girlfriend’s hipster panties combined with my bikini-style undies help hold the belt firmly against my torso, which has reduced chafing significantly. She is out of town right now, so I’ve been wearing it to test its durability and I seem to be doing much better. If everything goes smoothly, this seems like the perfect moment to ask for my graduation gift: a week in chastity including 24 hours of hard bondage and daily teasing sessions. Do you have any advice? Any cruel ideas you can suggest to put me through? (My girlfriend will likely see this). Does anyone know how to prevent skin chafing under the testicles? I can pull it out but struggle getting it back in. I think I can manage a week, especially with a hard flogging looming if I fail! If the week goes well, I’ll consider myself justified in buying one of those mouth-watering full metal shemale belts. Right now, I’m comparison shopping.

I use a CB3k, but I swap it with the rings from a CB2k. That way, there is no hinge to worry about....

Welcome Sdairvt, As you both spend time looking around here I'm sure you will find many ways that work for you both. That seems to be the best approach: doing what makes you both happy. She will soon realize that having you under lock and key is something she should have done ages ago. As for the ring issues, I face a similar problem, but not with my belt itself. I just can't stand trap ball devices for more than a few hours at a time. If your really serious about Chastity, yes you can't go wrong with a full belt. My Neosteel She-male is my closest friend nowadays, literally!! Glad to meet you, Missy Tanya

Ideally there should be no chafing of any kind. . . you may want to poke around and find some fixes. I am unaware of any as I am abandoning my CB-6k and getting a Mistress Watchful. I think you should earn your teases, either by suffering a flogging or a good cock-whipping.