Mature Metal discussion

Hi there, I just picked up an MM jailbird! It’s a lovely gadget. Mine fits well and feels very comfortable and secure. Before this, I had devices that were locked but didn’t breathe at all, which was no good. This JB is much more open and easier to wear. My partner wasn’t keen on the look of other gadgets, but she thinks the jailbird looks more like jewelry! She really likes it.

So here’s my issue: taking it off (when permission is granted). We use it so I can’t touch myself at all, except when we take it out for sex. My partner loves feeling me inside her, so removing it for intercourse is key. However, by the time foreplay gets us to that point, I’m already hard, and getting the base ring off becomes impossible! What do you others do? Any tips?

The obvious answer seems to be taking it out before foreplay starts, but being locked up means even just removing it can make me get erect again![[:P]]( which takes some of the fun out. Cold showers don’t really help me much. Keeping the ring on during sex is possible, though a bit uncomfortable.

Ideally I’d like an A-ring or one with hinges. But MM mention in their FAQ that they don’t make those ones.

Does anyone have ideas we could try? Or do you know where to find a medical grade stainless steel A-ring that fits the jailbird (or can be modified for it)?

Cheers!

Hello, from what I know, taking it off early is the only way. I have a double ring so it's twice as difficult to get off.

Just flip the ring around so she doesn't get poked by the protruding part.

Yes, you either have to take it off before 'play' starts... otherwise you'll deal with issues from the pin and, if you're like me, get hard quite quickly so it might be a while before you can remove the ring.

She always teases me when I struggle to get it off, which makes me harder and even tougher for her. A bit of lube helps a lot too. Then slowly work some skin through the top, push a little erection through, then more skin, etc. It isn't quick but doesn't ruin the mood completely.

> Leiothrix said: > Just flip the ring around so she doesn't get poked by the protruding part. > Click to expand... That's spot on. There is no need to remove it completely. You can simply rotate the ring so that the sticking-out bits end up behind your testicles.

I expect I'll have the same issue. I've been wearing a 42mm ring in preparation for my new cage. If I get even slightly hard it won't come off. Do as stated above. I will turn around and take whatever is poking me in the sac.

We had the same problem, so MM made a custom "A-Ring" for us with a removable pin. It worked out great for us, though some people dislike wearing the remaining 'Cock Ring' part during sex. My Keyholder / Wife enjoys me keeping on the double ring. Without the pin it is much more comfortable for both of us.

I will definitely try twisting the ring a simple way. I think my ring might be quite tight when fully aroused but I'll give it a go and report back. Assuming she lets me out of course! Thanks for the suggestion. Side note: love the avatar picture, 1mlockedup!

Revolving the base ring is definitely the way forward. In any position where you service your Lady from above, the projecting pin or 'sticky out bit' as Ms Snake calls it, causes no problem at all. Of course, when Madam assumes the 'on top' position during lovemaking the pin can be really quite uncomfortable because it digs into what is presumably a swollen scrotum, especially when she sits back firmly and repeatedly on the engorged shaft. But then such discomfort serves to remind one of their place; the pain should be accepted as an unimportant side effect of Madam's pleasure. And orgasming through tightly ringed testicles after long-term denial really is a sensation all its own... I'd recommend it.

yep have my device now and the only way that ring comes off if i'm soft. so I must turn around and whether she is on top or not it can hurt but I can take it and if it hurts enough you most likely will not be thinking about cumming.

But then some of us find suffering for our Mistress is a pleasure and exciting in its own right... Almost one's duty. Especially when that suffering increases Madam's own pleasure during lovemaking. She deserves nothing but the ultimate satisfaction, naturally.

That's exactly right. It also makes it less fiddly to put back together after I find. > Gabriellia said: > if it hurts enough you most likely will not be thinking about cumming. > Click to expand...

Oh the pain,squeezing my balls out of the ring .after i get the left one out the right is not as bad. Same prob frustrating to remove device while cock is trying to get hard.iv found to just deal w it

There's no need to remove the ring. > 2inch said: > Oh the pain,squeezing my balls out of the ring .after i get the left one out the right is not as bad. Same prob frustrating to remove device while cock is trying to get hard.iv found to just deal w it > Click to expand...

I agree with Miss Snake. Leave it on. To put the ring back on: I pull some skin from my sack through the ring then pop one and two out. I have to find them as they know what is going on and run indoors to hide.. Then I push my unit inside of me. Make it turn inside out. Push just a little bit of skin under the ring then start pulling the skin under until you have enough that you can pull the whole unit out. Remove in reverse order. On: 1. Sack 2. Testies. 3. Unit Off: 3. Unit...... You get the point. Maybe we should just leave them on... Gabby

Personally I've found that in all things to do with caging and locking male genitals it's simply best to follow Ms Snake's advice. Her guidance is always correct and She clearly knows what's best in these matters, as well most others...

Indeed, if she would like to use it then rings should be left on. The only good reason for taking a ring off is for shaving purposes if you're that way inclined. > Ganymede said: > Personally I've found that in all things to do with caging and locking male genitals it's simply best to follow Ms Snake's advice. > Her guidance is always correct and She clearly knows what's best in these matters, as well most others... > Click to expand...

Up to each Mistress of course, but I think pubic hair is for men with cocks. A slave's baby penis should look the part.

Closely trimmed pubes and immaculately shaved testicles is my current preferred regimen... Freshly shaved balls have a vulnerable and clean appeal, which my Mistress greatly prefers.

For those that leave their base rings on: how tight/painful does it get when you're fully aroused? I'm considering getting a locking cock ring front for times I'll have my cage off (even though the only use I'll be making of it will be via self-stimulation); is this likely to work or be more of a problem? I note that Thumper says he's glad he didn't specify a smaller gap (like what he has with his cage), so would I likely have problems if I try and use the same Mature Metal base ring for my cage with a cock ring? I've tried to test this using the plastic sizing rings, but I can't get the one I place on my shaft to stay in position relative to the base ring (as it keeps bending away from the bottom of the base ring as my scrotum contracts):s